this is a video of my friend, Bob McMillan, who recently past away. He was a great musician and a wonderful person. Here's a sample of his music.
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Tuesday, November 5, 2013
Sunday, August 18, 2013
Education Jokes and Quotes...What Fun!
"Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog it's too dark to read." -- Groucho Marx
"What happens when vowels and consonants gamble?" Answer: "They make an alphabet." --Tony Stemke
He lifted his head and replied, “I’ll be fine as soon as I get this kid out of his locker.”
Teacher: “If you had one dollar and you asked your father for another, how many dollars would you have?”
Vincent: “One dollar.”
Teacher: “You don’t know your arithmetic.”
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"What happens when vowels and consonants gamble?" Answer: "They make an alphabet." --Tony Stemke
Teacher: Millie, give me a sentence starting with i.
Millie: I is…
Teacher: No Millie, always say, “I am.”
Millie: Okay, I am the ninth letter of the alphabet.
I saw a substitute teacher with his head against a locker. I
heard him mutter, “How did you get yourself into this?”
Knowing he was assigned a difficult class, I offered some
moral support. “Are you okay?” I asked. “Can I help you?”He lifted his head and replied, “I’ll be fine as soon as I get this kid out of his locker.”
A friend of mine was assigned a new position teaching
English in a prison. Feeling a little nervous on his first day, he began by
asking a very basic question.
“Now, who can tell me what a sentence is?”
Driving one afternoon, I rolled through a stop sign. I was
pulled over by a police officer, who recognized me as his former English
teacher.
He said, “Mrs. Brown, those stop signs are periods, not
commas.”Teacher: “If you had one dollar and you asked your father for another, how many dollars would you have?”
Vincent: “One dollar.”
Teacher: “You don’t know your arithmetic.”
Vincent: “You don’ t know my father.”
Sylvia: “Dad, can you write in the dark?”
Dad: “I think so. What do you want me to write?”
Sylvia: “Your name on this report card.”
Dad: “I think so. What do you want me to write?”
Sylvia: “Your name on this report card.”
I stopped understanding math when the
alphabet decided to get involved.
-Unknown
-Unknown
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Thursday, August 1, 2013
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Wednesday, June 12, 2013
Create a Summer Craft Center for Your Kids
Keep
your kids inspired this summer with a craft room, aka the kitchen table and
some shelves brimming with supplies. Fill some shelves with baskets and
shoeboxes containing basic art studio supplies plus recyclables, craft supplies
(like fun foam, stickers, Play-Doh®, etc.), and fabric scraps. The kids
provided the imagination.
If you've got kids at home this summer (your own, your grandkids, etc.), I recommend this list of starter supplies.
Come the end of
August when you ask yourself, “Where did the summer go?” you'll be able to
point to your kids' artistic treasures and say, “There.”
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If you've got kids at home this summer (your own, your grandkids, etc.), I recommend this list of starter supplies.
- Basic art
supplies like white glue, paint, paper, tape, and beads
- Cardboard boxes
- Duct tape (a
variety of colors and patterns), painter's tape, electrical tape
- Corks, lids,
chopsticks, spools, jars, empty toilet paper rolls, and other recyclables
- Craft sticks
- Fiberfill
- Fabric scraps
and sewing supplies
- Wire and beads
from the dollar store
- Socks (old ones
or socks that have lost their mate to the laundry monster)
- Wood glue and
Mod Podge® (plus heavy gel medium or a glue gun—used with supervision—to
mount found objects like shells and rocks)
- Ink and stamps
- Paints and
cardboard stock paper
- Old buttons
- Beading string
- Discarded jewelry
parts
- Old watch parts
Why
not hang a clothesline in your craft room and display summer artwork there? At
the end of the summer, you can have the kids frame select pieces and mount them
on the wall.
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Monday, June 3, 2013
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Sunday, May 12, 2013
Mother's Day Poem for Kids
“MY MOTHER KEPT A GARDEN”
Mother you kept a garden, A
garden of the heart, You planted all the good things That gave my life it's
start.
You turned me to the
sunshine Encouraged me to dream, Fostering and nurturing The seeds of
self-esteem...
And when the winds and rain
came, You protected me enough-- But not so much I wouldn’t learn To stand up
strong and tough.
Your constant good example
Will teach me right from wrong-- Markers for my pathway That will last a
lifetime long.
I am my Mother's garden. I
am your legacy- I hope you always feel the love Reflected back from me!
HAPPY
MOTHER’S DAY! 2013
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Friday, March 29, 2013
A Fun Spring/Easter Activity!
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Monday, March 25, 2013
Don't Miss this Great Edit Giveaway on Dear Editor
There are a week of giveaways and great articles for writers on Dear Editor this week.
This is a fabulous opportunity to learn from the best in the business.
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Saturday, March 16, 2013
One Word Essays
COMPANIONSHIP
DETERMINATION

HONOR
HOPE
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Thursday, March 14, 2013
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Thursday, March 7, 2013
Guardian Angel Kids FREE Ezine!
The March 2013 issue of Guardian Angel Kids Magazine is now available online at http://www.guardian-angel-kids.com/ This month's issue is all about nutrition.
Book Features this month include One Large Peanut Butter Sandwich to Go by Linda Derkez and Rattlesnake Jam by Margot Finke. Poetry, short stories, articles and activities for kids fill this issue. Get parent teacher tips as well.
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Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Do You Need to Jazz up Your Shop with a Custom Banner Design?
If you need a banner made check out this etsy shop. She created the one above for me and I love it.
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Sunday, February 24, 2013
Writers On The Move: Book Clubs for Writers and Other Readers
Writers On The Move: Book Clubs for Writers and Other Readers: Two members from my local writers group and I are forming a book club. We decided to get together to read books on the craft of writing beca...
Friday, February 22, 2013
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Tuesday, January 1, 2013
N is for Necklace Project and my New Jewelry Designs!
N is for Necklace Project for Kids
I've been fighting bronchitis since December 20th. Bed bound, I decided to create some jewelry from repurposed items. Here's what I came up with.
This necklace is made with ribbon, string,
beads, an antique drawer pull, and an antique key.
This necklace was made from a simple chain necklace as its base. I added an antique shoe clip, lock and key, heart, earring, silver coin and a vintage cameo.
Next, I thought of a classroom project. Half the fun of this project is collecting the materials you want to make a necklace.
Have the kids do some collecting on their own. Here are some suggestions: buttons, tiny toys like cars or dolls, old jewelry (ask mom first), ribbon, string, chains, washers from dad's tool box,or old keys.
The teacher can add cardboard shapes like hearts, circles, squares, dogs, cats, fish, or even abstract shapes. You can have the kids paint or color them or you can use gold, silver or copper spray paint and do it yourself.
Feathers, beads, or painted toilet paper rolls would be handy as well. Punch holes on the top of each roll on each side for stringing and punch holes on the bottom so the kids can hang other objects from the bottom.
Antique drawer pulls or brass furniture parts can also make special feature.
You can make this a two day project, one day for preparing the objects and one day for assembling the necklace. Or you do the prep work and use just one day for the kids to assemble. Your choice.
This necklace was made with two chains, a piece from an old purse and an old piece of jewelry.
This necklace is copper. I used copper chain, beads, bling rhinestone, and a copper pin.
This necklace has an asymetric look to it with lots of beads, different chains and a large pendant.
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Sunday, December 30, 2012
10 New Year Activities for Kids!
By Erin McNeill
New Year’s Eve is an exciting time for everyone; why not take the time to plan an extraordinary event for the kids in your life? Everyone in the family can be involved in the activities to help create a healthy and safe New Year for all of your family members.
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New Year’s Eve is an exciting time for everyone; why not take the time to plan an extraordinary event for the kids in your life? Everyone in the family can be involved in the activities to help create a healthy and safe New Year for all of your family members.
- Create your own time capsule – Throughout the year gather clippings and other artifacts from important events that happened and put them all in a time capsule. Add in souvenirs and a few pictures from places you visited also. Store it in a safe place and decide together when you’ll open it again. It would be fun to open it each year and go through the contents and then add mementos from the previous year.
- Make party hats – Create your own party hats for your celebration! Decorate them before you assemble them; you can use pom-poms, glitter, sequins, glitter glue, ribbon, and anything else you fancy.
- Decorate cookies – Bake a bunch of sugar cookies ahead of time and have frosting ready to go for some serious cookie decorating. Make sure you have a lot of fancy decorations on hand like sprinkles and sanding sugars!
- Make fancy kid drinks – Have some sparkling juices and ingredients for Shirley Temple’s on hand so that the kids can feel fancy at their New Year’s Eve party. Having some fresh fruit to drop into the glasses before serving will ensure that the kids feel like the grown-ups!
- Play traditional party games with a New Year’s theme – Keep kids involved in the celebration (without them getting too wild and out of control!) by planning some party games. Pin the party hat on the person, musical chairs with holiday themed music, and a sequined ball piñata are just some of the activities to choose from.
- Make your own sequined balls – Create your own ball just like the one they drop at midnight! All you need is a two-inch foam ball, some straight pins or craft glue, colorful sequins, and a chenille stem. Older kids can use straight pins to pin the sequins into the balls while younger kids can glue the sequins on (be sure to allow drying time). Push a chenille stem part way through the top and use the other end as a hanger. Hang up all of the balls and admire the festive atmosphere you’ve created.
- Learn how to say Happy New Year in many languages – Make cards that show how to say Happy New Year in different languages and practice them on each other. Be sure to include a phonetic pronunciation of each language to help your guests read the cards. If you want to be really tricky you can make your guests guess which language each card is from!
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Sunday, November 25, 2012
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Sunday, November 18, 2012
25 Ideas for Cardboard Boxes!!
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Sunday, November 11, 2012
A LETTER FROM A VICTIM OF SANDY, LONG BEACH, LONG ISLAND
Please read this letter from a former student of mine. He has lost his home, business and two vehicles! Please consider donating to his fund at this site: http://www.indiegogo.com/sean-newman?c=home
Thank you all for your well wishes and your prayers I deeply appreciate them. My friend Lisa has been good enough to post on here for me and today I'm in Rockville center for some Wifi, to post this.
So everyone understands, I'm appreciative of FEMA, the National Guard, and the Red Cross but the reality of the situation is that when this type of disaster happens the first responders, neighbors, and yourself are what will get you through. My day begins at 5:30 am when I get up and get myself, my son, and my dog ready. I power my cell phone on the car charger while we drive to get online for gas two towns away and fill up our gas cans and the car we are using. My car was submerged by the bay on Monday night. My mother is letting me use her car after the cars at my parent’s house were miraculously left untouched. After an hour wait for gas we see if we can grab a guilty luxury of hot coffee somewhere and maybe a newspaper to see if anyone can tell us when the power could be back.
We drop newspapers and gas off to my parents and then meet the kids who work for me at my store to clean up the place. They are great kids. They know I can't pay them for awhile and they still show up, to say I'm thankful would be an understatement, and their parents should be proud of the kind of kids they raised. My store is ruined. The floor and roof caved in the back and the floor is sinking in the front. The water rose past any barriers and flooded out the store, destroying
all the inventory including the early inventory we brought for Christmas. The florist case is destroyed and the flowers are rotting in the case. Every plant in my greenhouse was flooded with salt water, every bag of soil, and fertilizer is ruined. We put a forklift and Gerard's motorcycle in here for protection and both appear to be dead. The front of the greenhouse was smashed when the rising water brought pallets of soils from the back of the store to front, crashing them in to the benches that then pushed in the front wall of the greenhouse. The heating systems were destroyed and the pickup was flooded as well. Today we will work cleaning out the store till 3. I speak to my friend who owns the repair shop across the street. He asks me if he could buy some fire wood but I refuse his money and tell him to take what he needs. He lost everything in his shop. All his tools and equipment are gone. He got in touch with his insurance broker who told him he is covered for hazard but not flood. He doesn't want a loan to get back in business so he will take his own savings to reopen. He is a good man and I'm sorry for him. We had some people come in to buy firewood even after I warned them it needed days to dry out from the salt water and wet sand covering it. They didn't care. It broke my heart to turn one guy away when he didn't have cash, but there is no power for credit and we are down to three chords of wood. If I knew I could get more wood I would have given it to him but I can't get a hold of my wood guy. We finish cleaning and as we head out, I thank everyone.
While there is still light out I walk Nula through the town. The pictures I saw in the paper don't do it justice and they don’t describe the smell of oil and gasoline that had been everywhere. There is a 12' section of the boardwalk on top of a red Nissan a half of a mile from where the boardwalk used to be. It’s quiet too, with just the sounds of generators or clean-up crews breaking the silence, but the liveliness that was this town is gone. The bull dozers have been pushing the beach out of the streets round the clock for two days now and the west end of long beach is obliterated. All the apartment buildings have been vacated except for the supers who are pumping water out. I bump into my uncle who is back from the rockaways and tells me they are worse. His neighbor’s house in belle harbor is missing the front. He tells me the Hess in Island Park opened one pump an hour ago and the gas line is 2miles long already. He told me state troopers are there to keep it in order. My beautiful beachside town I grew up in and love has its sidewalks lined with the contents of people's homes, all just ruined. There are so many abandoned cars that they have been slapped with stickers so the tow companies know which to get later. I walk by my friend Carlos's clothing store. It's boarded up but I already know he must have lost everything there. I remember reading that Billy Joel and Bruce Springsteen are doing a benefit concert for the devastated areas. I think it's kinda funny that they think they will help anyone when they really need it. If they didn't do the concert and sent some generators here that might be of help, but I'm not a fan of either so I'm just a little jaded. I have to get home before curfew starts. The National Guard will arrest anyone on the street after 7pm. 5 days of this and I'm exhausted, I just have to hold out till it’s back to normal.
I would like to say I talk to my parents but I'm so mentally tired I just nod a lot and tell them I don't know. I try not to speak because I want to keep level headed and focus on what I can do. When I think of what I can't control I start to lose it. I tell my parents LIPA might have the power on by November 10 or 11th by what the paper said but I don't think we will have before Thanksgiving because of a nor'easter that might hit next Wednesday. They say we might have water by Monday or Tuesday and we shouldn't use the tap to even wash. My son brings firewood in and I am thankful for him. He has been my right arm since he moved in with me and I try to keep strong for him. I don't know where we will live when the power comes back. The house I have I had just rented out was destroyed, and the apartment that I was renting most likely will be condemned. The foundation shifted in the flood and until they get a structural engineer they can't pump the water out of the basement for fear it might collapse. Apartments will be hard to find because there won't be that many livable ones available and most of my savings will be used up just living without any income coming in from my store. I spend my night watching my son play with my nephew. My nephew runs through the house laughing the way only toddlers can. It has become my greatest joy watching them and spending time with my parents, my sisters and my nephew. God can show you how important the little things you take for granted are. I try not to let everything else worry me and just dwell on these things, letting them become my most important memories. I thank the Lord that so far everyone I know is ok. I thank him that my parent’s home was ok and they have heat and room for my son and I. I am fortunate compared to most. I hope I can find some heaters for my grandmother and my friend. It’s going to be chilly at night now and they could get sick. I know my uncles will take care of my grandmother but they are in the Rockaways and if thats worse then here then I have to help them. We might get assistance by the end of the month but I can't think that far ahead. I just need to get through tonight and get ready for tomorrow, where I will get up at 5:30am and start over again. Keep us in your prayers and if you choose to help someone find out what they need and fed ex/ups it. They will get it from you before any government assistance will get there, and it will go directly to them. I love you all, God Bless you.
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Thank you all for your well wishes and your prayers I deeply appreciate them. My friend Lisa has been good enough to post on here for me and today I'm in Rockville center for some Wifi, to post this.
So everyone understands, I'm appreciative of FEMA, the National Guard, and the Red Cross but the reality of the situation is that when this type of disaster happens the first responders, neighbors, and yourself are what will get you through. My day begins at 5:30 am when I get up and get myself, my son, and my dog ready. I power my cell phone on the car charger while we drive to get online for gas two towns away and fill up our gas cans and the car we are using. My car was submerged by the bay on Monday night. My mother is letting me use her car after the cars at my parent’s house were miraculously left untouched. After an hour wait for gas we see if we can grab a guilty luxury of hot coffee somewhere and maybe a newspaper to see if anyone can tell us when the power could be back.
My father
will be at city hall at 9am. His usual routine is to ask questions and be told
to talk to FEMA officials. When he asks where they are no one knows. The FEMA
volunteers are giving out water and food today by the schools but anyone with
answers will be available at some point later. I sat outside Starbucks in Rockville
center to get WiFi and filled out my FEMA application on their website for my
home and my business both of which are ruined. The house I will clean out on
Monday but it is 17 miles away and I don't want to drive out there until I know
gas will be easier to obtain. The business will only be given a loan at 4% and
only after I go through my insurance. My insurance broker has been unreachable
for the business and when I drive to Rockville center tomorrow for cell service
I will try the main company. At best they will look at my store in 2weeks and
most likely a month, not sure when FEMA will or what either will do or what I
will qualify for, it's mostly just about waiting when it comes to either of
them. I stop by home depot to try and get a kerosene space heater but they are
sold out. I'm bummed. I wanted to buy one for my grandmother and my friend who
have no heat other than their gas stoves. I stop at ACE and they are out too
but just got kerosene fuel in so I buy two gallons just in case I get heater later.
We drop newspapers and gas off to my parents and then meet the kids who work for me at my store to clean up the place. They are great kids. They know I can't pay them for awhile and they still show up, to say I'm thankful would be an understatement, and their parents should be proud of the kind of kids they raised. My store is ruined. The floor and roof caved in the back and the floor is sinking in the front. The water rose past any barriers and flooded out the store, destroying
all the inventory including the early inventory we brought for Christmas. The florist case is destroyed and the flowers are rotting in the case. Every plant in my greenhouse was flooded with salt water, every bag of soil, and fertilizer is ruined. We put a forklift and Gerard's motorcycle in here for protection and both appear to be dead. The front of the greenhouse was smashed when the rising water brought pallets of soils from the back of the store to front, crashing them in to the benches that then pushed in the front wall of the greenhouse. The heating systems were destroyed and the pickup was flooded as well. Today we will work cleaning out the store till 3. I speak to my friend who owns the repair shop across the street. He asks me if he could buy some fire wood but I refuse his money and tell him to take what he needs. He lost everything in his shop. All his tools and equipment are gone. He got in touch with his insurance broker who told him he is covered for hazard but not flood. He doesn't want a loan to get back in business so he will take his own savings to reopen. He is a good man and I'm sorry for him. We had some people come in to buy firewood even after I warned them it needed days to dry out from the salt water and wet sand covering it. They didn't care. It broke my heart to turn one guy away when he didn't have cash, but there is no power for credit and we are down to three chords of wood. If I knew I could get more wood I would have given it to him but I can't get a hold of my wood guy. We finish cleaning and as we head out, I thank everyone.
While there is still light out I walk Nula through the town. The pictures I saw in the paper don't do it justice and they don’t describe the smell of oil and gasoline that had been everywhere. There is a 12' section of the boardwalk on top of a red Nissan a half of a mile from where the boardwalk used to be. It’s quiet too, with just the sounds of generators or clean-up crews breaking the silence, but the liveliness that was this town is gone. The bull dozers have been pushing the beach out of the streets round the clock for two days now and the west end of long beach is obliterated. All the apartment buildings have been vacated except for the supers who are pumping water out. I bump into my uncle who is back from the rockaways and tells me they are worse. His neighbor’s house in belle harbor is missing the front. He tells me the Hess in Island Park opened one pump an hour ago and the gas line is 2miles long already. He told me state troopers are there to keep it in order. My beautiful beachside town I grew up in and love has its sidewalks lined with the contents of people's homes, all just ruined. There are so many abandoned cars that they have been slapped with stickers so the tow companies know which to get later. I walk by my friend Carlos's clothing store. It's boarded up but I already know he must have lost everything there. I remember reading that Billy Joel and Bruce Springsteen are doing a benefit concert for the devastated areas. I think it's kinda funny that they think they will help anyone when they really need it. If they didn't do the concert and sent some generators here that might be of help, but I'm not a fan of either so I'm just a little jaded. I have to get home before curfew starts. The National Guard will arrest anyone on the street after 7pm. 5 days of this and I'm exhausted, I just have to hold out till it’s back to normal.
I would like to say I talk to my parents but I'm so mentally tired I just nod a lot and tell them I don't know. I try not to speak because I want to keep level headed and focus on what I can do. When I think of what I can't control I start to lose it. I tell my parents LIPA might have the power on by November 10 or 11th by what the paper said but I don't think we will have before Thanksgiving because of a nor'easter that might hit next Wednesday. They say we might have water by Monday or Tuesday and we shouldn't use the tap to even wash. My son brings firewood in and I am thankful for him. He has been my right arm since he moved in with me and I try to keep strong for him. I don't know where we will live when the power comes back. The house I have I had just rented out was destroyed, and the apartment that I was renting most likely will be condemned. The foundation shifted in the flood and until they get a structural engineer they can't pump the water out of the basement for fear it might collapse. Apartments will be hard to find because there won't be that many livable ones available and most of my savings will be used up just living without any income coming in from my store. I spend my night watching my son play with my nephew. My nephew runs through the house laughing the way only toddlers can. It has become my greatest joy watching them and spending time with my parents, my sisters and my nephew. God can show you how important the little things you take for granted are. I try not to let everything else worry me and just dwell on these things, letting them become my most important memories. I thank the Lord that so far everyone I know is ok. I thank him that my parent’s home was ok and they have heat and room for my son and I. I am fortunate compared to most. I hope I can find some heaters for my grandmother and my friend. It’s going to be chilly at night now and they could get sick. I know my uncles will take care of my grandmother but they are in the Rockaways and if thats worse then here then I have to help them. We might get assistance by the end of the month but I can't think that far ahead. I just need to get through tonight and get ready for tomorrow, where I will get up at 5:30am and start over again. Keep us in your prayers and if you choose to help someone find out what they need and fed ex/ups it. They will get it from you before any government assistance will get there, and it will go directly to them. I love you all, God Bless you.
Sean Newman Long Beach, NY
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